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Writer's pictureDericka Canada Cunningham

The Power of Solitude

Dericka Canada Cunningham, GBW Founder

August 7, 2023



This Week's Anchor


“The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to Him all they had done and taught. Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, He said to them, ‘Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest’.

So, they went away by themselves to a boat to a solitary place.”

Mark 6: 30-32 (NIV)

 

I don’t know about you, but I’m one of those awkward individuals who lives at the interesting intersection of introversion and extroversion. I’m introverted at my core, but life, society, and my career have forced extroversion on me in ways that make me pretty good at performing it when needed. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy having company and genuinely love connecting with others, but over the years I’ve realized that as a person who leans more strongly towards introversion, I need quiet and solitude to refuel my energy. Jesus seemed like one of these individuals too.


Mark chapter 6 gives an account of one of the most memorable miracles that Jesus performed—when He feeds a large community of 5,000 with just five loaves of bread and two fish. Before this miracle, Jesus realizes that the apostles' basic needs had been neglected in the hustle and bustle of accompanying Him. So, Jesus instructs them to come with Him alone to a quiet place and rest. In this story, the apostles and Jesus never quite make it to this moment of solitude due to the crowds of people wanting to gather around Jesus. However, Jesus’ words stay with us as inspiration for our need for rest in solitude.


There are countless moments in the Bible where we see Jesus turn to quiet Himself, or like in this chapter of Mark, at the least encourage it. One writer outlines these moments, highlighting the many reasons why Jesus chose and encouraged solitude in the time that He dwelled with us on Earth [Ward Cushman, To Every Nation, 2015].


Reasons Jesus Chose Solitude & Moments We Can Choose It Too

  • To prepare for an important task [Luke 4: 1-2]

  • To recharge after hard work [Mark 6: 30-32]

  • To work through grief [Matthew 14: 13]

  • Before making an important decision [Luke 6: 12-13]

  • In times of distress [Luke 22: 39- 44]

  • To focus on prayer [Luke 5: 16]

Sometimes we choose solitude, and other times solitude chooses us. In those moments when we are called into seasons of solitude, we can rest assured that if solitude was useful for Jesus, it can be equally meaningful for us. Some might read this devotion and think, but what happens when we have too much alone time? Well, let’s clarify the difference between isolation and solitude. Understanding this difference can guide us in knowing when taking space is helpful versus harmful. To explain more, isolation is often a reactive state influenced by our life experiences and/or by the actions of others/the world around us. When we are isolated, we feel drained, depressed, lonely, rejected, and ashamed. However, when we enter a space of solitude, we do so with intention and purpose. Unlike isolation, when we choose solitude, we gain and experience rest, peace, clarity, creativity, direction, renewal, meaning, inspiration, and Divine wisdom, and we are better prepared to continue in our calling.


God doesn’t want us isolated, but He values solitude and rest, and we can find value in it too. When we take moments to step away from our busy lives to be present with the Holy Trinity, what we gain outweighs the time and tasks we sacrifice. So, if you find yourself called into solitude this week, as opposed to fighting it, embrace and tap into the Divine restorative power of aloneness!

 

Reflection

  • What resonates for you about this scripture and/or this devotion?

  • Do you find it difficult to spend time in solitude? If so, why? If not, what makes it easy for you? What can you gain from moments of solitude?

  • What intention(s) do you want to set to connect and/or reconnect with being grounded this week?


Related Scriptures to Ground You Through this Week

  • Psalm 46: 10

  • Isaiah 40: 31

  • Lamentations 3: 25-28

  • Matthew 6:6; 11: 28-30

  • Luke 5: 16

  • John 14:27; 16: 33


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Quote of Love & Liberation


“Learn to be quiet enough to hear the genuine within yourself

so that you can hear it in others.”

Marian Wright Edelman





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